A man who thinks women are intelligent (Unless they’re disagreeing with a man or thinking they deserve anything besides [his] contempt), rational (Unless they’re disagreeing with [him] on anything at all), accountable human beings (By which I mean they need to take responsibility for everything they do and, thus everything [misogynists] do to them…) and expects them to act that way (by agreeing with everything a man says and never doing anything to stand up for themselves and provoke a man into doing something to them because that’s just the consequences of making a man angry with you and you deserved it!).
Commenter Paradoxicalintention, from this thread at We Hunted the Mammoth
In my experience, a misogynist is a man who hates women but claims he doesn’t and is just a poor misunderstood nice guy.
The ultimate test of whether a man is a woman-hater or not is what he thinks of feminism. If he hates feminism, any kind of feminism, even that radical hairy-legged lesbian kind, he’s a misogynist. If he thinks the patriarchy is a “conspiracy”, he’s a misogynist. If he thinks he’s such a special snowflake that he deserves cookies for not raping or murdering women, and he should be exempt from any responsibility whatsoever for women’s oppression, he’s a misogynist.