Hating feminism is hating women. Full stop. There’s no way to hate feminism without hating women.
Those who oppose feminism are generally privileged men who have it pretty good and don’t want to rock the boat, and women who oppose feminism have aligned themselves with those men in order to get the short-term rewards of male attention, social approval, and access to male-controlled resources. And then there are the women who have feminist sympathies but have been scared off from feminism because they are afraid of being called ugly man-haters.
There are also a contingent of white lower-class males commonly described as “losers” who hate feminism because their lives are shitty and they want to take it out on people more marginalized than they are. Hence why they also tend to be virulently racist and homophobic. These men are unwilling to recognize that despite their shitty lives, they still wield privilege. They falsely believe that to be privileged means to be rich and leading a great life. They’re conflating economic privilege with sex- and race-based privilege, when all the latter means is that as bad as these men’s lives are, women and nonwhite people of their socioeconomic class have it even worse. They don’t want to recognize this, because the toxic masculinity they are steeping in has robbed them of empathy.